D/s

Dom/sub vs Top/bottom

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2010 

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My D/s Philosophy

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circa 2012

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How I Learned to be Dominant Without Someone Actively Submitting to Me

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2012 

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Why D/s Really is S/d

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2009

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There is Indeed One True Definition for Submissive

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2014 

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A Plea to Stop Calling it a "D/s Relationship"

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2015 

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Can You Submit to Me?

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2014

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A compliment piece to

"Why I couldn't submit to you"

by goodghirl


I can’t submit to you

I need to respect, honour and obey someone I submit to and I couldn’t do that with you.

I need the person I submit too, to be my intellectual superior and someone I can learn from, someone I’m proud to serve and who will help me grow as a person, as his person.

I want to be obedient to someone I submit too, I don’t want to have to bait him to dominate me.

You’re life is a car crash, you think you’ve been unlucky. I think you’ve made bad decisions again and again

You’re a man child – I don’t want to be submissive/Mommy

You’re preferences change depending on who you’re hitting on sometimes at the same time, I want someone I submit to, who is fully aware of his wants and needs and knows how to have them met.

I need consistency

I need commitment, I need to know I’m part of something, working to stay there.

I need someone I submit to, to be able to deny me things even when he would get something from it because it’s the best thing for us.

I could manipulate you into anything I wanted.

I need someone I submit to, to understand honour and act with it always. Even when it’s not the easy road.

Honesty is so important good or bad, I need to know the person I serve when I ask them for their opinion they will tell me the truth not what they think I want to hear.

So that’s why I’ll wait and hold steady till the time is right.

*Fetlife specific reasons

I know what your cock looks like, this isn’t a size problem, the fact I know what your cock looks like shows a lack of judgement, put some clothes on.

Thinking that having pictures of lots of ex’s on your profile somehow makes you more attractive, it doesn’t I don’t want to be a member of that club.*

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Fools Rush in

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2014 

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Gifts to Give Your Top to Make Your Bottoming Experience Better

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2013 

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