They fell in love when they were young
and at that time their love took center stage
even as they lyrics changed throughout the years
adding jobs and friends…
as the two of them slowly aged.
Then one day their children took center stage
and soon they found…
their love…still strong
could now be spread around.
Then the children grew and the house seemed empty
until their grand children took center stage…
and they found their love for each other and family
remained strong
as they both reached middle age.
Now, much older…with a great-granddaughter
Added to a family that commands the center stage…
they have settled down together
and are enjoying the glory of old age.
I wish every person in the world would understand
would somehow come to see
how every person in the world
is part of one large extended family…
That we can make this world a better place
with less violence, less prejudice, less mayhem
If whatever troubles people are facing…
we help each other through them.
How lucky I have been in life…
to have a loving wife and a beautiful blended family…
to have a home in Florida where our children grew up
and a family cabin in NC….
If we are lucky…one beautiful family and one home
is a milestone we will reach…..
I am grateful I’ve been blessed….
for having two of each.
As I’ve watched my children,
and my grandchildren grow up
I am grateful that I have been around
to enjoy all the steps they have been taking…
And I look forward to enjoying
the steps they take from here…
and all the steps our great-granddaughter will me making.
It was a wonderful afternoon…one that would make any parent glad…
We spent it with our grandson Damien, his wife Trista,
our great-granddaughter Violet and Trista’s mom and dad.
They came to the cabin for a visit…yes, including their dog Ghost, the entire bunch
and to make things even more special…they brought along pizzas for lunch.
Adding to this beautiful afternoon…again I must assert…
Deborah made a salad to go with the pizzas and and eclair cake for dessert.
Getting a chance to know Trista’s parents was awesome…one we won’t forget
and one of the highlights for the old folks…was getting to hold Violet.
Holding Violet in our arms…we all felt energized, exhilarated and inspired…
I was blessed to walk around holding her for so long…my arms got tired.
She would cry and I’d walk and rock her to and fro…it’s a memory I shall keep
as she gazed up at me with her wide eyes, then slowly close them and fell asleep.
How we love moments like this…a moment when two people blend…
and how we wish we could stop time…so that moment would never end.
We have such a short time to hold our children, grandchildren
and great-grandchildren safe within our arms…
A short time when they are with us every minute
and we can keep them safe from harm.
So we learn to cherish these moments…
while we can still hold them in our arms
where, in the intimacy of the moment, we can enjoy their beauty and their charms.
There will come a day when Violet will be too big to carry in my arms…
when I’ll wish in the course of a rhyme
That, for a moment, just for a moment, we could go back in time…
To this particular day…when I was energized and inspired…
the day I walked and rocked and cradled my great-granddaughter
for so long
my arms got tired.
I am grateful that no matter where I’ve put down roots
no matter where I’ve dwelled…
I’ve never been far from my family tree
for I am rooted there as well.
I am grateful for having lived long enough…
having traversed life’s ebb and flow
to be around to watch my family grow
and grow and grow.
And I am just as grateful every day
for all the friends I’ve made along the way.
Finally as a new year begins
as I turn the next corner…the next bend…
I’m grateful for my friends who have become my family
and how my family have become my friends…
I am grateful this holiday season…
or for any time spent in the arms of my family…
So when they say upon leaving…”See you soon.”
I can answer…not soon enough for me.
I wish we were all blessed…
for what a wonderful world this would be…
If our first words to everyone we meet
are…Welcome to our family.