Though I am free, & most of my loved ones are free now, too, of the abuse cycle we inherited, still, my heart breaks for those still gnawing on their leg to get free from the trap, not knowing yet there is One who can release them from it's deathly grip...
Jesus hates what you're going through (or doing, if you are abusing someone!), but He loves you!!!
Ask Him to help you, & He'll prove Himself faithful, if you're willing & ready to be set free!
And if you'ld like me to pray for you, feel free to write to me at stazia@telus.net
I've been there, numerous times, & I know from experience that there IS a way back to wholeness & peace, & love & healing...I'd love to walk with you awhile along the way...