Violet’s blue spruce, which we bought this year
the same time we cut down our Christmas tree
has been planted in the yard and is doing beautifully.
The planting came with its share of celebration and festivity…
as all ten members of our family who were here
had a hand in transplanting Violet’s tree.
All ten people took a turn on the shovel…
which was our ultimate goal…
and answers that pressing question:
How many family members does it take just to dig one hole!
With every family member participating…
I can say with certainty…
we planted more than just a blue spruce
we planted a family tree.
We have given Violet and her tree the best start…
as all families try to do
and we pledge to do our best to raise that tree…
and little violet too.
To provide them both with sunlight, air and water..
nurture them through the summer heat and winter snow…
to give them both the care they need…
and enough space in which to grow.
We are happy to have planted in both of them
roots that will extend and solidify…
which will give them the strength and determination they need
to reach up to the sky
We love to walk on Honeymoon Island…where the shoreline meets the sea.
And no trip to Honeymoon Island would be complete
without saying hello to our favorite tree.
She’s a lovely old sea grape tree…she’s not tall or regal or grand…
She’s kind of tiny and weathered but still stands proudly in the sand.
Every time we greet her she seems to have lost a little more of her form.
No doubt because she’s been battered by the wind, the waves
and weathered by many a storm.
I suppose that’s one of the reasons I love this windswept, wrinkled
and weathered old tree…
because in many ways when I look at her…she is a lot like me.
But after two hurricanes hit Honeymoon Island
when we were finally allowed back on…
to our dismay and sorrow…our lovely old sea grape tree…was gone.
After years of stopping to greet her…taking her picture
spending a moment or two together…
It seems our lovely old sea grape tree finally met a storm she could not weather.
Now when we set foot on Honeymoon Island
there will always be a touch of sorrow as we stop and say her name…
for now…no walk along her beach will ever be the same.
But she left us with a lesson…a message…that lovely old sea grape tree…
who for many years was there to greet us…but is now a memory.
How life is ephemeral and fleeting…
How we need to enjoy every moment we share together…
because there will come a time when, we too, will meet a storm we cannot weather,
That perhaps the best that we can hope for is to stand proud and tall…
and bring joy to others…before we become a memory…
So people will smile when they remember us…
Just like our lovely old sea grape tree.
Today’s blessing is inspired by Kahlil Gibran;
When we lose a tree may we take a moment
to grieve our loss…to cry…
Then quickly plant another one
so it can write its poetry upon the sky.