For me…when times are rough…I think back to Fairy Tales….
How evil wins its share of battles…but in the end…how good prevails.
Whenever I fight evil…sometimes I lose…sometimes I win…
and oftentimes I’m in need of mending….
but I truly believe for every Once Upon a Time
there should be a happy ending.
I also know life in not always a Fairy Tale…
filled with joy and love…and laughter…
I know there is pain and suffering and heartache in our world
and that everyone does not life Happily Ever After.
But…having been influenced by Fairy Tales all my life…
my mission is a simple one:
To enter into the fairy tale of everyone I meet…
so when their story’s done…
I may not have been able to come to their rescue
riding a white horse…like a knight…
but their lives will end a little happier…
because of the pages I helped write.
The wedding was completed…
in the cabin only Damien, Trista, Deborah and I remained.
when we heard the unmistakable sound of a bird
crashing into our window pane.
We ran out on the deck and were happily amazed…
to find a little warbler standing there…
She seemed unhurt, unscathed…
but she was definitely dazed.
We knew it was best to let her be…
so we told her she was welcomed to stay…
to take all the time she needed…
to get herself ready to fly away.
We were hoping all she needed was a little time to get herself together
to take a little rest
and, sure enough, the third time we checked on her
she had flown back to her nest.
Once we knew that warbler was safe…that she had only been stunned….
my mind immediately found their way…to the words of Emily Dickinson:
If I can stop one heart from breaking
I shall not live in vain.
If I can ease one life the aching
Or cool one pain
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again
I shall not live in vain.
Of course she was talking about a male robin not a female warbler
but it really doesn’t matter the gender or the name….
or, for that matter, if she was talking about animals or humans…
Emily’s message is the same.
May we be blessed to understand
on every continent,
in every country,
city
and town…
We are put upon this Earth to lift each other up
not
to put each other down.
Before a hurricane, tornado, earthquake, fire or flood…
we seem to have evolved into the kind of society…
that sees as an enemy anyone with whom we disagree.
Politics, religion, the right to choose, gender identity,….
we position ourselves on opposite sides…and see the other side as our enemy.
Before Mother Nature unleashes her wrath and fury our way
we have a tendency to let our fear, our prejudices and our hate…
lead our hearts astray.
However, when Mother Nature is angry, saddened or aggrieved…
her hurricanes, tornadoes, earthquakes fires and floods
don’t care what side we’re on…what we do or don’t believe.
And after she devastates us with her earthquakes, fire or weather
we tend to forget how we are enemies as we all come together.
We put away our differences, our disagreements, our hatred and our madness…
with one shared goal…to come to the aid of anyone in need…
and help to ease their sadness.
Yes, after Mother Nature wreaks havoc on our land our seas and shores
our compassion and our love for one another
reminds us what our hearts were created for,
I only wish it wouldn’t take Mother Nature
shattering peoples lives and hopes and dreams
to remind us we should not be enemies…
that we’re all on the same team.
May we be blessed to treat everyone we meet
in exactly the same way
As if we’re offering them a sweet breeze and a patch of shade
on the hottest summer day.
Last night I heard Jane Goodall tell the story of her life of 90 years.
She spoke a lot about her mother…and of her own wishes, dreams and fears.
She spoke about her chimpanzees and their world which she loves living in.
How her mother taught her to judge people by what they do…and not by the color of their skin.
She spoke of how humans think we are separate from the animals…
of how when it comes to this planet…we think we are the heart of it….
but how….when it comes to the animal kingdom…we are only a small part of it.
And she wondered when it comes to our planet…
instead of admiring, loving, appreciating and enjoying it…
how the most intellectual creatures on the Earth…are the ones who are destroying it.
But at the same time she was telling us of her ups and downs…
holding her life under a microscope….
the words she used…even after 90 years…wove a tapestry of hope.
Yes, the more she talked…the more her tapestry of words unfurled…
for the people and other animals on this planet…she has a hope for a better world.
As she outlined reasons for her hope…one rested on all the young people
ready to pick up the mantle…to help fulfill her dream and alleviate her fears…
Which, I imagine, meant all of us…because everyone in the audience…
was younger than her 90 years.
We left her talk inspired…because as her tapestry of hope unfurled…
We know together we can…together we will…and together…we must change the world.
As I listened to this courageous and amazing woman…so wise compassionate and kind…
other women whom I admire popped into my mind.
For I believe if we want to live together in a more compassionate and peaceful way…
perhaps it’s time we listen to what the women have to say!
If we hope to live together in a world where no creature loses…and ever creature gains….
It’s time we listen to the likes of Maya, Emily and Carol…
(and you’ve already heard from Jane.)
When we look at what matters in our life
when we’re trying to come up with an amount…
May we be blessed to understand
what things are important enough to count.
May we all be blessed to be like a lighthouse
able to proved a light…a spark
there to help those in need
find their way out of the dark.
May we be blessed to understand how we are all artists
as well as canvases…incomplete
How we paint a little of ourselves on everyone we meet
And how everyone we meet…
paints a little of themselves on us as well.
sometime the strokes are bold and colorful…
sometimes they’re so subtle it’s difficult to tell.
And how it doesn’t matter if they are family , friends
or people we meet in passing and have long ago forgot their names
once we’ve painted on each other…
we will never be the same