what do I want them to read
on the slat above my grave
the dates of my birth and death
cannot fill the huge space
surely there must be something
strikingly good to read about me
how about my vital statistics?
but that’ll be immaterial by then
how about my hobbies and favorites?
those are too long and eclectic
how about the men I’ve been with?
hahaha their wives might not like it
how about my accomplishments? if any,
did i ever accomplish something
what must i have except for dates
that cannot forever be kept
would they still celebrate all my dates
birthdays, anniversaries and the likes
would they remember to visit me once
in a while after all i was once alive
would they bring me flowers when they do or
by an accident they strayed on my grave while
exploring a shortcut going to their heading
now i sigh with an empty mind
i couldn’t think of anything
my life is just commencing
why am i thinking of an ending
let my love ones do their thing
in the meantime while I’m still breathing
let me enjoy life and start dong meaningful things
so that those that I would be leaving behind
would have something nice to engrave on my epitaph
i can only request to make it a comical one
with a guest book portion for my friends to sign
for whatever they failed to say
while i am still alive but they forgot
because they were too preoccupied
It's not the beginning nor the end that counts, but the inbetween.
Well penned my dear, fill the inbetween to the fullest, let your cup run over with life and love.
Anna Hefele