Every so often
things we cannot
control, happens.
The person that we are,
are defined by our actions.
We choose to act
upon the characteristics
we have.
But doing so,
can jeapordize
the relationships
we have.
Take me,
a conversationalist,
someone who opens up
easily.
Now, I am
not an iniatator,
but can carry a good
coversation at length.
I am a friendly
and out going guy.
But for some odd reason,
these traits betray me.
These actions are not accepted
by all.
By many.
These actions put
fear in women,
who take things
the wrong way.
From a simple conversation,
it doesn't mean I will
iniate anything more
than talk.
But that is not my issue,
my concern is,
why does this happen?
Why am I a creepy or
wierd guy because of
the way I carry myself?
What if it was a guy
who was attractive,
that the woman liked?
Would that change her
opinion of similar actions
by a likable man?
Why is one's actions
deemed unacceptable,
and another's identical
motions accepted?
This is what I do not understand,
maybe I missed the boat,
maybe I do not see things clearly,
all I see is a double standard.
I think it's about the
I think it's about the connection. If the connection is right those same actions may be acceptable. All depends on that...
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