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Handle Your Energy Please!
Sitting here peacefully minding my own business, suddenly my phone rings and it is you.
The excitement that I used to natually have to engage you is now replaced with feelings of blue.
Energy transfer is a real thing and I no longer want to be recipient of yours.
Constantly trying to uplift and encourage you is creating a permanent ear sore.
I want nothing but the best for you, but I need you to want it more than me!
It is time to take immediate action in your happiness journey!
We are all personally resposible for our own happiness even if that means sometimes letting some things go.
All of our decisions have consequesnces regardless of our motivations, we create our narratives; this we all know!
I challenge you to challenge yourself in living a fulfilling positive life doing what's most enjoyable and important to you.
Regardless of your motivations, your conclusions need to be positively impacting, otherwise you now know what you need to do!
I love you and want to look forward to supporting any of your positive goals.
I know we are human so every day will not be perfect, all I ask it that you try your best to own a positive soul.
Going forward I demand your commitment to accountability for your positive contributions to our engagments consistently.
Otherwise I will have no choice but to love you from a distance and continue to keep you in my prayers faithfully.
By Bryant Mosley
"...I need you to want it more than me"
That's a great line. And great advice. We can become mired in the muck of hopelessness towards our own well-being. We all need pulling out of the mud, sometimes, but being there can become so habitual that some people start to fight against the tug, rather than push towards the pull. Not always realizing they are exhausting the very person trying to help them, as well as their own selves. Such a state becoming a sort of drug.
Just the same, there are situations where positive just isn't the answer, either. There are not always rays of sunshine, no matter how hard we try to will the sun into existence. In those times, the best a person can hope for is that those rays will return in time, but mourning may be required. It's not always mourning for a loved lost, sometimes it's mourning for the death of a dream, or of a part of our innocence, or something else significant. In those situations, sometimes a person just needs to lay in the mud for a little while and know that it's okay.