After getting your heart crushed, mangled, broken and beat up to the point that it is unrecognizable so many times, you may tend to say, bah humbug, or take the fox's attitude who tried so many times and failed, and say, "it was sour anyway!" But, hold on, have faith, and keep your eyes open, it is waiting for you. You may find it in the strangest place or person, but true love is worth it, and worth the wait at times too. Took me many years!
