I will come down to earth a little tonight and give you a small taste of the "real" me. I could not handle a harem although my love of women would not allow me to have anything but pleasure at the thought of having myself surrounded with ladies (such as yourself :-) ) I am relieving myself of the burden of even hoping for another princess (although I wouldn't deny that possibility). I am afraid I would be too picky about the qualities that are inherent in "royalty." How many would know that one of my criteria would be; The question, "Is she a lady need not be asked, for if she were the question would not arise"?
How many would know that they should be smarter than me but never let me discover it? How many would know (as do I) that I am a fairly good housekeeper but I need someone to clean up the "corners" that I seem to miss? (This applies mentally as well) How many could cope with my depressions that are many but I hide them well? They are not deep and brooding but small and annoying and a little humour dissipates them. I am sure that most women have that mother instinct. I do not need a mother most of the time but, like most men, I do sometimes. I need to cry and not be judged. I need to love beautiful things and dainty pieces of hedonism without being thought to be "off center." I love beautiful things and the color pink, and flowers, and to crochet, and make clothes, and to cook and comfort children. I apologize for my nature but I am Mr. Mom and always will be. I am not gay but I am appreciative of my feminine side and am very in touch with it. Okay that's enough for now. I don't want give it to you all at once but I do appreciate any time you put into reading my stuff and if any understanding comes out of it you may have me at your feet :-) I truly do live in sort of a fantasy world where men should learn to do what their women do and appreciate it more - and show it a LOT more. That works in reverse too. I do not believe we are all that different - we just try to make ourselves different and in doing so we create problems and failures. If we recognize that we are more the same then it will be much easier to work together and have the peace and love that everyone wants but can't find the instruction book and fail to realize there is no warranty on relationships. For all of this I will continue with my love and appreciation for women and all they do for "us." My thanks to you for that also. - DJ