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Being Single
People associate being single with being lonely... desperate...
You have to be in a relationship to feel wanted or needed, that's what they say.
Whoever made that rule, should be punish to the highest degree.
Because being single, doesn't make you lonely or desperate, but free
Free to choose to think outside the box, to explore your natural self
Discover things about yourself that you may lost in life or previous relationship
It is not about having a chip on your shoulder or being confine....
Being single is about breaking the mold, being bold, and being happy with who you are
Now don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with being someone who loves all that you are
All that you can give and want to recieve, but being single gives you the chance to understand thyself...
Building your confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love.
Knowing that you are beautiful for being who truly are.
Never feel that you have to compromise for anyone who does not appreciate that
Commit to yourself first before making a commitment to someone
Truth
Seems to me it is an important thing to do. Relationships work better, in my opinion, after each has gotten to know themselves and love themselves. If we don't treat ourselves well then we probably won't treat others all that well either. (Even if we think we are treating them well) Also, if we treat ourselves with disrespect, how can we expect others to respect any better? It's a mad cycle and I'm going off on tangent. Yes, being single is a healthy place to be. Especially if you are respecting yourself. I liked what you had to say in your writing. :)
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Thank you so much!!
Thank you so much!!
The List Of Potential Mates
is small due to drugs, immoral habits, smell, no job history, jail record, three exes with children, homeless, too hairy, rude, beats women, alcoholic, can't budget, bar hops without you, wants to drive your new car, does not understand big concepts like a mortgage. The list is almost infinite, but explains why we have learned to like ourselves and have fun and contentment as singles. I searched for 30 years - at 67, I may do a Meryl Streep, anything is possible :D