by DaddyO
I have recently discovered that despite my long list of play partners and participation in polyamorous affairs for the last ten years of my life, at heart I am emotionally monogamous.
I do love to flirt, but that has nothing to do with where my heart is set. My monogamous spirit can work within a poly-sexual relationship framework providing I am in a dominant role with my partner and I am making the decisions for us. Therefore sluts and other sexually adventurous females are encouraged to apply for my attention.
For me sexuality is fluid and I do not want sexual limitations placed upon what my partner and I see as pleasurable.
So I suppose you could still label me "polyamorous" but this is because I have loved more than one person in my life (sometimes at the same time), and love is not something I can turn on and off very easily.