I was only a mill-worker’s child--
No one of importance at all
She was the fair-haired daughter
Of a secretary and a supervisor
A rung above me on the ladder of life.
Her clothes were fashionable and frilly
While mine were simple and made from feed sacks.
A beautician in town cut her flowing tresses
While my mother trimmed mine with her dressmaking shears.
She was teacher’s pet in every grade of school.
I was the despised bane of Mrs. Spradling’s existence.
She took dance lessons and baton
And marched in parades with her father’s lodge buddies.
I put tinfoil on the rabbit-ears-antennae so I could watch American Bandstand,
And I never even SAW a parade much less marched in one.
She had a legion of hangers-on following her who emulated her precisely.
I was the example of “behavior to avoid in polite society” and nobody copied me.
She was a majorette, a cheerleader, a junior class queen.
I was a writer of winning essays who played the deformed dwarf in our three-act play.
She drew attention to herself with every endeavor.
I hid in the background and tried to disappear.
She married her college sweetheart and raised a daughter just like her.
I married the wrong man for me and raised three sons virtually alone.
She is the most dissatisfied person on the face of the earth.
I awake every morning awaiting the new dawn with anticipation.
She looks back sadly at the BEST years of her life.
I look ahead with expectancy at a future of happy participation.
She laments the opportunities that eluded her.
I thank God daily that I made it through the worst of times,
And NOW I BEGIN TO LIVE.
This is one of my favorites so far... I love the comparisons and the end results... I relate to your side of things more closely and especially share your view in the last line...