28 August 2001 - 6:24am — Hazelnut Coffeegirl (not verified)
Anne, Cut your losses, cut loose, cut him off. It will be the best thing you have ever done for yourself. It will be the most liberating thing you've ever done. It will feel GOOD after a little time has passed. It will feel GREAT when you meet someone new. When you are ready...after the appropriate amount of double-stuff oreos and ben&jerry's...you will meet someone whose eyes light up, who calls you every morning to ask if you've slept well. You'll meet someone who tells you that you are amazing and unique and special (someone who tells you everything that you already know, deep inside, but just haven't told yourself lately). You may feel like you are shattering, but later, later you will be stronger for standing up for you. Write me if you need reality checks. I know I needed quite a few when I was leaving my ex. ~Hazelnut
Anne, Cut your losses, cut loose, cut him off. It will be the best thing you have ever done for yourself. It will be the most liberating thing you've ever done. It will feel GOOD after a little time has passed. It will feel GREAT when you meet someone new. When you are ready...after the appropriate amount of double-stuff oreos and ben&jerry's...you will meet someone whose eyes light up, who calls you every morning to ask if you've slept well. You'll meet someone who tells you that you are amazing and unique and special (someone who tells you everything that you already know, deep inside, but just haven't told yourself lately). You may feel like you are shattering, but later, later you will be stronger for standing up for you. Write me if you need reality checks. I know I needed quite a few when I was leaving my ex. ~Hazelnut