she has no protected box, she has a cage. She does see past herself, she does see him. It wasn't wisdom she was tryinig to nurture and ease his pain, She knows angels come in different forms, some lose their way.... She is tired of fighting .... she loves him , if he sails on his own journey then she will watch him leave ....She did not say those words to maim and hurt, or to pretend she knew the full story... . Real love shines kaleidoscopically many hues and tones, She does not know how to fix this.... needs to understand what he holds so highly. He thinks he is leaving her in her own self doubt, onwards to new horizons and brighter, stronger things... I hope he finds what he searches for, but she will stand strong and if the stormy seas of life crash and deliver him back to her ... she will thank God for a second chance and will be more understanding of his feelings....