If you’re unfortunate enough to know pain the way I’ve gotten to know pain
You’ll understand what I mean when I say
Pain does more than just…hurt.
It does that, for sure, but don’t underestimate how much pain can do to a person.
When pain strikes back over and over again and it rips up your ambitions to shreds and lays them down to make a little nest for itself in your soul
When, without even ringing the doorbell, pain walks right into your house, kicks its feet up on your furniture, and starts to get comfortable calling you its servant
Pain drains you
Pain changes you
Pain takes the lights out of your eyes and your smile and the tips of your fingers
You stop moving your hands when you talk
You stop moving your body when you dance
You become different
The pain scoops up your insides and throws them out onto the porch so you feel hollow inside
And before I go on, let me make it clear that I’m not talking about some sappy, emotional pain, the stuff you find in Ryan Gosling movies or lonely Facebook statuses, the first-world problems, the unnecessary drama that people have decided to label as painful when the only thing being bruised is their overlarge egos
No.
I am talking about actual pain, the kind of pain that sends you to the floor.
Pain that liquefies your mouth and dissolves your retinas,
Pain that twists your insides like a wet rag,
Pain like knives,
Pain like fire,
Pain like swarms of flies,
Pain like you’re a hollow shell,
Pain like you’re a bag of rocks,
Pain like you’re a tree, rotting, decomposing, dying from the inside out
This kind of pain takes your character and your personality and everything that makes you, you, and drags it out through your mouth while you’re gasping for air that refuses to enter your lungs
And in order to fill in the holes and the empty spaces of where there used to be a smile
You become a creature
A monster, even
You bare your teeth, hunch your shoulders, sharpen your claws
You shrink into your most primal self
As a futile attempt to shrug this thing off your back,
This parasite with its teeth sunk deep into your flesh
But it’s not going anywhere
You become consumed
The pain swallows you up and digests you
Its stomach acid burning holes in your memories
By taking over your body, it takes over your mind
The pain plays tricks on your brain
Throws shadows on your sanity,
Whispering wet lies in your ear,
Saying it’s never going to end,
It’s never going to leave you
It’s never going to get any better
You’re never going to get any better
And that’s a promise it’s willing to keep
The pain sticks around
Only detaching itself from you for a little while
Giving you barely enough time to put on your gloves and scrub its filthy stains out of your furniture
Before kicking down your door again,
No
You’re going to have to get used to it
So this pain will linger on your breath
And follow you like a dark cloud
Threatening to storm at any moment
And the worst part is
The pain lives inside you
And you can never escape from yourself so
You have no refuge from the storm
The lucky ones find temporary shelter under
Medicines
Chemicals
Drugs legal and illegal
And sometimes these shelters last long enough to become
Homes
But even when the pain is gone
The fear of its return hangs forever heavy on your shoulders
And honestly
Between the monster and its menacing shadow
I don’t know which is worse
We do anything to try and
We do anything to try and escape that pain is part of life, and part of loving another peron. Once we accept there is no fairytale life and that we were cajoled into thinking there was, letting go og that limited belief system allows us to face pain with more tolerance.
Physical pain has to be the worst if you ask me.
...and he asked her, "do you write poetry? Because I feel as if I am the ink that flows from your quill."
"No", she replied, "but I have experienced it. "