My hair is so…..Unapologetic
Unapologetically black
With its kinks and naps
Sometimes makes me feel like I’m trapped
While others have the ability to manage
I couldn’t 4C myself being blessed with the misfortune of the roughest
of curls & coils
Why couldn’t have been given the gift of “good hair” like all those other girls?
While others were in pigtails I was rockin’ rough and stuff with my afro puffs
That’s where the seed was planted of self-hate
Why can’t men just love my hair in its natural state?
Oh yeah, that’s right
It’s ‘cause the imagery portrayed in society has only perpetuated one type
Among you
Since when did it make it okay for us to judge one another based on a bunch
of extra protein?
You know what I mean?
My hair is so….Out of line
I frequently run out, of, time to actually do it
I’ve literally had to it up here with home girl
Having to undo an updo while trying to
Maintain my failed attempts to tame her
She’s a wildchild now
My hair is so…bad
The worst kids I’ve never had
It misbehaves like Bebe’s Kids
It just refuses to be tamed
Those knots never die, they just multiply
And the instruments to keep them line,
Let’s just say they ain’t neva scared
They act up, act left
Acts tough, gets tangled then acts right
they make me ashamed to know them sometimes
especially The way they act up in public
My hair stays showing out whenever the least bit of moisture tries to talk to it
But oh no miss girl must be humbled by each weather element
Under the condition of which way the water falls
My hair is…… bougie
Throw a weave in her and she’ll act like she doesn’t even know your name
Her main focus is to take your focus off of the mane-tenance that comes with her
So rather than continue to mane-tame (maintain) a natural look
Her only objective is to look natural
Her demeanor changes with the each style
She can make you fall in love with her until those coils come back around
From Macy Gray to Beyoncé in zero point five
When she’s complete, I feel my personality come alive
The sound of what would resound as a thousand apples being bitten
at the same time
The way we battle against one another, that’s sublime
The war between naps and comb should be a crime
She makes me sick! Roots so thick that the Nile wouldn’t be able to run
through her
But the bond we share, I….. hate her but I love her at the same damn time
She used to be able to make or break my confidence
Until I learned to embrace her
That’s the versatility of the black woman
Super powers replicated never duplicated
Wonder why they call it black girl magic?
You ever seen us transform with just our hair
We have the ability to be a plethora of different women
That’s why I never understood how the black woman is the most cheated on
race of women
When we literally have the abilities of a chameleon
Woven together by the stitches of our weave, extensions
[play on words for lace front]
My hair….
Is NOT broken
So I wish you’d all stop trying telling me to fix her
Got switching elixir after elixir
And each mixture attempts to transform her into something she’s not
My hair is a statement of pride
She’s where my heritage resides
She lives inside of my head not just on top of it
The ability to make the world turn from right side up to upside down
She’s my crown
She’s everything that makes me a queen
My hair is so….
Beautiful
Be-you-tiful
be you to the fullest
It is literally one of my best features
It makes me
Me
I’ve learned to love her
And I won’t allow anyone else to make me ashamed of everything we’ve
gone through
From skin heavily kissed by sun
To the kinks and naps that makes us one
I’m proud
Because of who she is
Is everything I'm trying to become
I Have Worn A Fro Since 1967
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Watched beads and long braids become twists and Angela Davis long and Nikki Giovani neat but now I accept it all as norm. Fashion happened and stayed. It is not a hairstyle, it is a politcal statement; a lift every voice and sing red black green flag declaration of who we are. Micro-aggressions are out, getting on with the revolution is for the in-crowd. Power to the strongest!
~S~
A perfect and oh so true
A perfect and oh so true write. Sad that some people look at hair over who someone is inside