Fellas, ever took time and thought real solid
of what you would do when time to approach college
biologically, you become a man at age 18
and hopefully your young life carries with nothing
to intervene
Bill Cosby had that speech with Theo about regular people
and that rich folks and middle class ain't neccessarily equal
you probably live in your mama's basement, but I won't judge you there
unless you don't make efforts on getting out of there
but if you do, you can start with a part time hustle
but the full time would help and you won't have to struggle
kats may laugh at Calvin working at WacArnold's
but hard earned work pays off at full throttle
and try to save as much as you can spend
and be careful.....cuz extra dough can generate extra friends
And that's another thing, keep around those you trust
not talking about repeat felons and the guns they bust
as long as you can relate to those who think and act like you
and you can take those extra steps in the world as they challenge you
By the time you reach 23, you should be well educated
either with or without a degree, but still obligated
to earn as much as your parents when they struggled to raise you
watch the game, play it, master it, don't let it play you
more than likely you'll be involved with your longtime love
and talks about committment and marriage looms above
not saying you should walk down the aisle at the drop of a dime
but eventually it's important to your woman and her biological time
and if you have kids together, then it's already a lifetime bond
a ready-made family as you strengthen and bond
but then again at that age, you still have a lot to learn
maybe demons to face and bridges to burn
but if you're single, keep your game up to par
don't be livin in moms for free and you got yourself a car
that shit probably runs for 30K or more
when a third of that amount should be invested in a store
Stand up for something or you'll get left behind
and cussin at the world because you got blinded
cuz the world will laugh back when you don't take a chance
of what's out there for you to advance
and if you got credit, keep it stabilized and decent
pay your shit on time, and hopefully increase it
and of course, have a bank account, you never know when it's needed
and women will disregard you if you're a cheap bitch
Not saying she should run your pockets dry and tarnish your pride
But if she's real, then she learned that from the grown woman's guide
Now that you done did your late night partying and gettin dirty
the 20s are out the door. Damn! Now you enter 30
Clubbing doesn't have an age limit, but you would look at it different
and the same kids you once teased, are now wild and beligerent
you're now observing what should be in your family's future
possible promotions, 401k's,and an extra boost up
for planning to get that house upon the hills
and establishing a budget(fuck it), that should never change
that once your plan is developed, then all should be arranged
to live, to build, to struggle and pray
to be the best grown man you are today
that's the normality of men who structure themselves
take it from the man who wrote this, it's all about self.
Preach, please. I love this, hopefully the young brothers will listen to your wisdom and let it motivate a change.
AVG
This was a very well written poem. I'm so glad you wrote it, and I hope you post it on Myspace so others can read it. You are truly a blessed writer.