Taking back The NO
that was stolen from me
probably around the age of 2 or 3
or maybe given away willingly
realizing that those on whom I was dependent
annoyed withdrew their love
when they heard the child cry petulant
thereby setting me up for a lifetime
of people-pleasing behavior
No
A word learned early and the consequences thereof. Humans love control - they don't get much most years so kids comply OR ELSE. Cool topic - well said, well read - slc :D
Thank You allets:)
Clarity as Lori said
See that allowing a child space to practice creating boundaries in the safety of the family dynamic benefits ALL:)
This given the ideal purpose of Family is to nurture the individual in accordance to their true self