Have you ever said love ya to the lady from the bank when you say goodbye on the the phone? An easy word to throw around and harder still to not say it when you care. Its not an entrapment when its, Love ya man, thanks for the help. Its not a forever stamp when its a I love what we've had together, don't ever think less of me. And certainly not a proposal when their mere essence makes you feel good and warm , safe and seen, I love you for who you are and how you make me feel. Thank you. I love you. Now go and get on with our seperate lives since you don't want to hear that word.