When there's love in your heart❤
there's a certain set of unwritten rules
to pursue or to eradicate on an individual basis
and for me
the role of silence is both fascinating
and revolting
Silence can relay the strongest, unspoken bonds in a given moment
in it's purest form,
90% of communication is non-verbal
where silence is the antonym of noise...
but few study well enough to read them and react realistically
Fred Rogers
once referred to the gift of silence as being able to read the white spaces between the paragraphs
which he believed is more important than any of the text
because it allows reflection about what's just been said
...so in my view, silence can often become the white space we all need to show our value to one another
That's what's lovely
but what is not lovely
is a frost-bitten, permafrost silence
wielding a savage blade
evoking the absolute dredges of feeling
unloved
underappreciated
undervalued
leading those to duel against their own insecurities
and I struggle to respect the malignant overtones of muted 'resolution'
I cannot permit my integrity to be aimlessly dragged around like a toddler with their least-favorite blanket, if I intend to possess enough self-esteem
When the silence is sublime
nurture love, warmth, affirmation
give each other reasons to smile
on day 2 AND day 2,000
when the silence is deafening
apply a salve if able
but if the damage blackens even the newest tissue
scrap whatever's necessary to survive
and like E.T. on Atari
bury that anger in a desert
Talk.
Nice line :D slc
I didn't want to
I didn't want to overcompilcate this first draft heh :) thanks
Just Re-read Twice
Self analysis and relationship content propositions as a proposal - walking inside those blank spaces is very telling. Talking is an artform. :D slc
Talking, and just getting
Talking, and just getting good at expressing ourselves openly, is not only an art form, it's a way of freeing yourself from destructive tendencies. It's medicinal. It's so critical, thanks for reading it back :)