Good love shouldn't be measured by its frequency
or even by its attempts, successful or otherwise
It shouldn't be approached by an
all-encompassing set of redeemable qualities
ready at one's whim
like some..
amorous tool shed
on a beleaguered set of belt loops
Sure, these traits are applicable
(and downright handy on occasion)
but love doesn't require every gadget
it just requires the right talent, effort, and timing
for the right person
My advice to you
is learn to cultivate
then hone
the beautiful premises of idealized love
and apply those visions like a contact lens
bridging and fortifying any synapse gap
blurring
(pun intended)
the lines between imagination
and human interaction
Work hard to remove the excesses of your discontent
and treat self-awareness as a muse
to sculpt the greatest puzzle piece
while seeking all other puzzle-makers
to improve
to match
to unify as something familiar and well-glued
The highest form of love -
the kind worth giving and receiving -
is wholly unique, rich, and fulfilling
and one mug of that wonder elixir
supercedes ten gallons of the store-brand liquid drivel
I believe
the quota you're allotted in a given lifetime
of the pure, unmitigated, ignited bliss
consuming our hearts, eyes, and tongues on the daily
should not become measured by the norms we didn't generate
or from opinions of those who haven't put in the time
to pass the master class of yore
Your love should be measured solely by a covalent bond
of a shared, uncanny complexity
and the resulting everglow
transcending your abstract
and finite realities
that's when power and potential collide
...that's the stuff worth believing in
...and those are the people worth believing in
Two In A Row
Non-store bought definition, LOVE IT! "blurring the lines between imagination and human interaction" ah, I sing your song and will seek more of this love for the remainder of my days. Thanks for the uplift. A great way to start a new year - with a definition of loving stashed in a favorite oft used back pocket. :D