"Life contains but two tragedies. One is to not get your heart's desire, the other is to get it." - Ralph Waldo Emmerson
Author's Notes/Comments:
The way I'd interpret this one, the first tragedy is to get your heart's desire and what that tragedy is: to have it but other's are deprived of it. It's rightfully yours but it isn't any one else's. The second tragedy to not get what you want is pretty much self-explanatory.
I agree with your authors comment on this one