I sit here and I'm afraid,
a child shivering in the night,
dreading what my future might hold.
Engaged to a wonderful man
but feeling trapped,
as a little golden bird in a cage,
stuck in a future I am unsure about.
How do you know what's right?
How do you know what's wrong?
Will my fear of the unknown
bring on my own destruction?
I want to live, to be free
to take the path I choose
and not be held to this place and time.
I want to pursue my dreams
but I feel stuck and I am at a loss
because he has planted his roots
and I have not.
Do I love?
Yes.
Do I dream?
Yes.
Why can't both intertwine?
I long for my dreams
to be reality
but I feel this need to choose.
Do I choose the love of a man,
the sight of him helping to raise my child,
the comfort and peace I feel in his arms?
Or do I risk all to follow my dreams,
take the path towards a career
that would help to define me as a person
and includes all that I am passionate about in life?
I am torn and distressed,
my heart is so confused,
I thought being in a relationship
was supposed to help boost you up
and not tear you down.
All I'm feeling now is pain:
the pain of having to choose,
the pain of having to either
give up my love
or give up my dreams.
Some might find it shallow,
some might say my love is not so strong
if I choose a career over my relationship.
But I've already given up so much in life
must it always be this way?