my unrelated cousin Donovan once said
'A man is not a man without some even small form
of pride'
and no matter what, whether it be his family values
his morals or the freedoms for which his founding
for fathers died
what we each do effects in some small way
all of man
even those who are now dead
man must first learn to believe fully in himself
that is if he wishes others to one day follow
and down in the dirtiest of trenches he himself must
be willing to lay down alone and wallow
of course not everything old Donovan said was very
easy to swallow
but now that he's gone peacefully away
his words linger and fill a place that for the
briefest moment upon his untimely death grew quite
hollow
empty is the woman who does not come to grips with
her grief and loss
yet note that between which of the two I am currently
feeling it is indeed a competitive toss.........
( written Nov 21,1992 am)