I don't completely agree with this but at the same time I'm unsure of how I feel about this. Here's an example, you walk into a room and find your significant other in bed with someone else and they have just cheated on you or they tell you alone that they have cheated. One is worse than the other even though they both have the same outcome. I think it is weird though that people never really pay attention to the outcome but rather the way it got there. I think sometimes though that words can just be as bad as actions, words hurt and words can kill. I still am not sure how I feel about this completly.