Everything is so fucked up
I can't take the pain
I've had enough
Block out all
The hurt i've gained
Over the past few years
It seems like the
Only real way
To stop the tears
Isolate myself
From the world
I once knew
And alter reality
So i can once again be happy
No more torment
And destruction
Of myself
I'm doing fine
Alone in the dark
With no one else
I don't need your help
I can do this on my own
After all you were
The one to leave me all alone
Feelings all bottled up inside
From you those things
I need to hide
For if i come
Beyond the wall
I know these tears
Will surly fall
My protection
From further pain
No longer will things
Ever be the same
well to answer your question... it is better to feel the pain so you can deal with it so it won't bother you anymore... if you try ignoring it it'll come back to you at the most private moments... however if you face it and get over what's bothering you... then it's not a problem ever again. Things do seem fucked up at first after relationships go bad... but when you find the serenity within yourself to think of that person without feeling hurt or heartachey... then you know you're ok.