There shouldn't be a to-do-list
to earn the love of another
(strive for redamancy)
You are good enough for yourself
and when you're ready, you'll be 100% for your next- lover
(stop with your atelophobia)
There's no need to obtain all
of which lives in anothers mind
you'll grow with eachother over time
Your querencia lives within.
I know you live with hiraeth,
but darling
you are capable of being
the love of which you desire to see, feel and be.