I Don't see why guy's have to say stuff out of the blue about another girl maybe it's because they think it makes us jelouis or so mad, that we know that we can not do anything about it. It's really no sense in getting upset over the way guy's play those little mind game's, Guy's cheat and play games all the time and never get cought but when it's us doing the cheating and playing around with there emotion's we get busted. Why should we feel guilty for something that the guy started first, i do not see why we should have to take the blame for there mistakes.