They tell me I’m a woman now,
To speak softly and comb my hair.
But the age of debutantes has died;
I had no parties and taffeta gowns.
Welcoming me to womanhood
Was a box of tampons
(But we shouldn’t speak of that!)
And a strip of rainbow-colored condoms.
They wanted me to loathe my body,
To restrain and hide my generous breasts,
To conceal my curves under loose polyester.
They taught me the feminine graces -
Lie on my back, carry his children,
Laugh at his jokes, make his sandwiches.
Is that all I’m meant to be?
A paper doll,
Ornamental toy,
Forever smiling through my silent servitude?
They tell me I’m a woman now,
But my hair’s unruly waves inspire unruly ways,
Forever flying where they please,
Dancing lightly in the summer breeze.
I refuse to comb and bind my hair
Or hide my body under layers of shame.
I am female, proud child of the changing moon,
Everlasting image of Athena and Artemis.
I am not afraid of my breasts
And I will speak of tampons whenever I please.