I was recently asked what advice I might give to my great-grandchildren
I think some advice can be helpful…some is ‘for the birds’
I’ve always believed a person’s actions speak louder than their words.
In lieu of any advice I might give, then…
here are a few things that I know
I know no one is perfect…I know it’s always better to go slow.
I know a smile can change a person’s day…I know not to ridicule
I know religions can be wonderful…I know religions can be cruel.
I know love and family can make you happy from childhood to adult
but chocolate in the right amounts can achieve the same results.
I know a smile and a kind word can help wipe away a tear.
I know that joy is sometimes waiting on the other side of fear.
I know we should listen more to nature…
I know I love a good bookstore.
I know I love our soldiers…but I hate that there is war.
I know innocent people should never die…from a bullet…from a gun.
I know there is more love in this world when all is said and done.
I know dogs pass away too early and children grow up too fast.
I know we should do everything we can to make each moment last…
I know everyone is beautiful…I know it’s okay to cry.
I know compassion and acceptance are powerful things,
I know we should all give them a try.
Finally I know Emily Dickinson was right…
when she wrote this beautiful refrain…
‘If I can stop one heart from breaking…I shall not live in vain.’
So take what I know as advice if you want…wherever you may go
and add them to the growing list of the things you already know.
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And keep in mind my first thought…how advice sometimes is for the birds
and that your actions will always speak much louder…
and more clearly than your words.