dear body,
when I was sleeping peacefully one night and some strange disease climbed out of my genetic code,
how did the conversation go between the two of you?
was there an intense negotiation about where he was supposed to end up?
did he originally ask to set up shop in my left lung or in my pancreas or something?
and if so, why did you refuse?
why, out of all places, did you decide to offer my large intestine as prime real estate?
girls like me aren't even supposed to have intestines inside of our bodies
haven't you heard that it's not proper to have bodily functions?
girls are only ever supposed to enter a bathroom to
check the mirror,
fix their hair,
re-apply
lipstick
dear body
when a concerned friend asks me what's wrong with you
I tell her that I "get stomachaches sometimes."
I don't tell her that there are lesions on the walls of my intestines
I definitely don't tell her that I have elevated risk of colorectal cancer
I don't tell her that my pillbox is crammed full of strange, unnatural chemicals
that make my body do embarrassing things
I don't tell her that, in sixth grade, I nearly died of malnutrition
because I didn't want to deal with the consequences of eating
I don't tell her that every inch of my skin
has become too well acquainted
with the feeling of the cold, linoleum floor
of a McDonald's restroom
in Virginia
I don't tell her
that I'm ashamed of you
dear body
I know that I'm supposed to thank you
for allowing oxygen to circulate throughout my lungs
and for taking me to places I could have never reached without you
but when you were choosing symptoms for me to suffer from,
why did you choose them from jokes in a 1st grade classroom?
why do you give me so much pain
if I can't even talk to anyone about how I'm feeling
without a six-year-old boy giggling to himself because it's funny
or even my best friend offering no words of consolation but
"haha, whoa, TMI!"
as if I just described to her in full detail the contents of a dirty gas station bathroom
and not the reasons behind my depression
dear body
do you remember that time we went without nourishment for three days straight?
I starved you
no food, only water
and yellow Gatorade
and two saltine crackers for breakfast when my self-control slipped
dear body do you know why I did that to you?
I did that because I was going away for the weekend with my boyfriend
and I knew that if I had any food in my system
you'd show symptoms
and my biggest fear in the world is knowing just how much I could disgust him
you see, you're not very ladylike sometimes
dear body
I'm sorry
I'm sorry that I'm so ashamed of you
I know that it's hard for you, too
I'm simply stumbling in the dark, reaching for a guilty party
in a case where the two of us are victims together
dear body
thank you for carrying me through all of the physical agony that we've had to endure together
and thank you for keeping my heart beating, despite the odds
but please
if any other villains approach you and ask if they can make a home inside you
next time, please, just shut the doors and tell them there are no vacancies