Love and security are opposites;
in pursing love,
you have to be reckless.
That’s why it’s called
“falling in love”.
It’s not “stepping into love”.
It’s not a testing of the waters
where you just wet your toes
and nothing else.
It’s a full-body descent;
you must submerge yourself completely
and become immersed in
someone other than yourself.
By the same token,
you can’t dive into love.
It’s a voluntary action
and can not be forced
into motion.
If you dive in,
you’re bound to hit your head
on the shallow bottom
and become paralyzed
by heartbreak.
The deepest love
is one between two people
who are willing to be brave
and take the plunge.
Rewrite 2012
Love and security are opposites;
in pursing love,
you have to be reckless.
That’s why it’s called
“falling in love”.
It’s not “stepping into love”.
It’s not a testing of the waters
where you just wet your toes
and nothing else.
It’s a full-body descent;
you must submerge yourself completely
and become immersed in
someone other than yourself.
By the same token,
you can’t dive into love.
It’s a voluntary action
and cannot be forced
into motion.
If you dive in,
you’re bound to hit your head
on the shallow bottom
and become paralyzed
by heartbreak.
The deepest love
is one between two people
who are willing to be brave enough
and take the plunge.