If after all those years he's called you his treasure
then how come he uses you for a punching bag for pleasure
how come when it all goes unreported and undisorted
he takes away your life as if you've been aborted
how come there's no food in the fridge for the kids to eat
when daddy's unemployed and hustlin the streets
where days of tomorrow ain't always promised
and you're asking how come stress hits you the hardest
how come brothas can't find jobs with little education
just erase all the statistics and improve the situation
and she's askin how come she can't find a good man
maybe the ones you shut out were good ones and they had other plans
his intentions for the future for y'all were far from bad
and now you're reflecting on your life without a dad
how come guys don't respect us by calling us bitches
and when he gets to a higher status, he burns his britches
like he needs a trophy white chick to strengthen his gains
and all we're good for is to complain and promote pain
How come these same brothas don't respect themselves
wanting to bag every chick as a notch under his belt
until the one day he meets someone who'll steal his heart
then crumble and crush it asking how come I was marked
How come fad diets don't seem to work for me
when I love to eat the foods I want uncontrollably
the power to live and to diet takes sacrifice
by advancing the right way without looking twice
How come these questions don't always have solutions
because these chages are within ourselves, so let's make a contribtuion