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2 Questions:

1)  If Chutchie was in a relationship in the next year, five years, or ten years, what is your opinion on what the guy will be like?  What do you expect of him based on what you know about Chutchie?



2)  If you had to give that person advice about Chutchie, what would you say?



Quoted Responses:

Nicolette Bonjoc (cousin):



1)  He’s “a Japan boy, giving a Japan rose, carrying her, and loving her.”



2)  She’s “sometimes mean, good, and nice.  She doesn’t like to get something from other people.  She says no, no, no.”

Zachary Ocapan (cousin):



1)  He’s “Japanese, hot guy, rich, lawyer, or Chinese.”



2)  “Yo, Chutchie is a person who looks Asian, nice, smart, game freak, and she doesn’t like you.  She likes Japanese hot guys.  Oh yeah, Chutchie can sometimes be frustrating and annoying.”



Lemuel Timbreza (cousin):



1)  He’s “Asian, someone dreamy to her, and Lemuel’s personal worker monkey.”



2)  “She’ll want to take pictures of you, put hearts around your pic in myspace, take vids of you like the ones on youtube she watches.”



Janet Ocapan (aunt):



1)  “The guy must be rich because he has to share with us (j/k). He must be someone that knows how to take care of my niece, respectful and will love her faithfully.”



2)  “My advice to the guy would be always be there for my niece most especially when she needs him, if there's a problem never talk to the parents especially the mom or he's gonna get it (haha).  NEVER hurt MY NIECE BECAUSE HE WILL GET HURT. He has to learn how to translate Japanese to Filipino.”



Marietta Bonjoc (aunt):



1)  “Ommmmmmmmmm....Chutchie would consider a man who is genuinely honest; skilled in understanding human needs. Joyful, happy, good-natured, kind and gentle. Good communicator and strong. And introspective: A man of great COMPASSION, he is sensitive, and CONSIDERATE.”



2)  “I would suggest to him to allow Chutchie to be her "own person"----not trying to change her but EMBRACE her the way she is...(intelligent, decent person, loving, caring, understanding and stubborn like her auntie Marietta).”



Bryan Adam Tomimbang (older brother):



1)  “I don’t know why everyone here is saying he’s going to be Asian.  Chutchie would most likely go for a handsome English chap.  LOL.  Japanese?  Korean?  May be Filipino?  Who knows?  <(^o^)>  But seriously, I’ll accept him regardless of race, appearance, origin, class, religion, status, and characteristics…YET as long as he isn’t ignorant, violent, overcoming, hypocritical and/or stuck-up trash.  You should be lucky I’m the easygoing type, guys.  Being sometimes stern, strict, and authoritative, I could’ve made more difficult expectations for you.”



2)  Chutchie is someone with strong convictions so please learn to respect her, her ideas, beliefs, and opinions, just as, hopefully, she too must learn to respect yours.  Stay faithful because living with her for the last 17 years I’ve seen her be dedicated and faithful not only to her friends and family and life but also to her dreams.  Though if I find a speck of infidelity out of you, you can be sure as hell I will properly, verbally, and painfully teach you a lesson about infidelity.  Punishment can sure be a b*tch but punishment serves as punishment must see fit.  \(#_#;)  No worries though.  She’ll receive the same treatment sans the pain if she so does it to you, I can assure you.  It’s not that I do this to hurt, I only do this because frankly I really care about you two.  Oh, and by they way, the road to love isn’t always smooth all the time so if she annoys you, I’ve always got your back if you need me.  I’m siding with you for sure.  Heh.  She is a bright, strong and vibrant young woman, ergo I advise you to allow her to grow just as you will grow as does everyone in their lives.  Although Chutchie can be a bit fiery at times as stubborn too, that’s just part of her character.  The negative, I mean.  But a reminder that everyone in the world has their strengths and weaknesses and also nobody is perfect, do not forget.  This guy must be respectful also to the family because who in the right mind would want a complete jackass to be part of the family?  Listen guy, she grew up with us first before you met her.  If you can’t learn to respect us, how will we try to get along with you?  Well, as the final note, keep laughing, keep learning, and most importantly keep loving.  Grow together and I’ll be happy.  It’s smooth sailing from there fellas.



[Wink Wink.]  v (^_~) v



From us all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHUTCHIE!!!