Bloody Minded, Does it Pay.
Being bloody minded about anything is in my opinion a complete waste of time and brainpower. Learn to forget those small-minded things that have upset you in the past.
Deep breathing is a good way to start to get rid of bloody mindedness It takes a strong will and much energy to get that chest of yours inhaling and exhaling the air that all beings need just to exist. Do not waste any on thoughts that are not productive, productive to your own health and well being.
You think that you have been hard done by, so what it happens to someone every second of the day. It is a part of life. Learn to shrug it off; shrugging your shoulders is also a way to let off steam. Steam that is also counter productive and not worthy of a healthy human being.
Flushes of anger that heat the blood and brain wanting to smash out and hurt someone or do damage to something are all signs of an unbalanced soul and body. Get a grip on yourself; learn to smile at small adversities. You say that you are a fully grown man/ woman I beg to say that at heart you are all still in an early learning stage that you have not mastered. You will have many lives to live, Lives dedicated to a learning that will teach you to live one with the other in perfect harmony.
I can feel that many of you will laugh and think that I am again writing my usual rubbish. Think again this is not even a warning, I too am still in that learning stage and I will have many more lives to live before I reach that state of perfection that we all are unconsciously striving to attain.
I have at last realised my mistakes my wrong doings and the need to say so that many may hear and perhaps take notice of an old man’s writings. Note I have said an old man’s writings not a knowledgeable or wise old man for that is not a title that I may claim for myself. Others will come and pass on a better message than I can compose for those deaf ears those blind eyes that many in this world call their own.
Wake up to the truth it is never too late to turn back, retrace your steps. Where did you falter and loose the path? You will find it if you really look. I found my own mistake that took place years ago. I have regretted it ever since but I too have pushed it into a dark corner not letting it see the light of day. Do not be like me obey that inner voice that will guide you if you let it.
Once again Bloody mindedness does not pay take it from an old man keep your thoughts free from hate jealousy small mindedness and any of the other small narrow thoughts that one might have.