I never understand when people say they don't know how to love themaelves.... I don't think that we don't know how but we just see the things we loved about ourselves disappear, break, or be stolen from us all of these things we can not stop they are out of our control and I think once we start losing those things that make us smile we don't know how to fill the void they leave, so we have an emptiness that we don't know how to react to and that void grows like a cancer and we are left wondering what we did to lose our smile?