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surround yourself with others as pure.  you can't fix any problem that belongs to someone else.  you may think one like minded spirit is enough, the grating curve balls of life will prove you wrong every time.  when working to cultivate meaningful relationships, surround yourself with a supportive network of genuine caring people.

be wary of vices masked as virtues and vice versa.  often good or bad behavior is ruled by unexpected intentions, and self examination can yield wisdom from even the most egregious error.  keep this in mind when examining others' behaviors as well as your own.

if you see a monster in the mirror, be brave.  it's a clear sign you, and not the monster, are in control.  after years of dealing with broken people i can tell you the source of their monster is always fear, shame, and self loathing.  beneath every vicious psychopath is a hideous fear of self.  remember this especially when tempted to judge another human being.  to be a gentle soul is a sure sign of bravery in the face of the most hideous monster, yourself.  it is the highest valor.  likewise, if you don't see the monster, it may be winning.

if you see someone else's monster, don't hold up the mirror.  to date, i have not found any method that ends in any result other than shooting the messenger.  even if someone asks you specifically, do not do it.  this also falls under the category of trying to fix problems that don't belong to you.  

to improve your life, closely examine your personal relationships and your dreams.  beware of useless habits that steal away your time.  emphasize quality over quantity in leisure.  and when upside down or in doubt

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