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when someone cheats...
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tragedy When someone cheats
It's not a measure of how good you are
It's a measure of how good they're not!
Boredom is everyone's fault
for not making life what it could be.
And while there's certainly many reasons to cheat
There one big reason why you should not.
Lust makes you cheat, love makes you stay.
believing in a lie IS what hurts the most ,
that's why many fear religions. The truth is we hurt ourselves because we hope so much and expect so little. The truth is love has nothing to do with fidelity. It'd be easy to say it does but it doesn't. Love is a relationship that too many of us jumping into declaring I love you with passionate embraces. The lust fades and Passion grows in the arguments the desire to be something more. so fulfilling a need of love we move on to self identity and security. Then neglect love then find cheating, and cheating is not only physical it is anytime someone needs to lie, or omit actions deemed unacceptable to keep the status quo. People can't stand the feeling of missing out. This causes stress and clinging behaviour which destroys everything in the end. Real love no matter what is unconditional. It is the most accepting and exciting of them all. No one understand this like a person who loves unconditionally. However, this doesn't mean they don't mind being disrespected they do. But you don't have to stay together to be in love either. There are also guys and girls who live to put notches on thier belt . What it achieves I don't know but it won't stop them from wanting it all and some poor snuck who doesn't love themselves enough to test and check and read the signs, well, they are just cheating themselves. The line is only one you yourself can draw. It's important you find someone who draws the line the same place you do. Good luck and remember to treat yourself better. HugSS
