People always come into your life
for a reason, a season, and a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is,
you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
or to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out
and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is
that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your
life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come
to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something
you have never done.
They usually give you
an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer
and Summer to Fall,
the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you
a lifetime of lessons;
those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant.