LOVE (ALL YOU NEED, ALL YOU WANT)



All you need is love.  All you want is love.  Really, you do.  Really, that is all you need.  Really, that is all you want.



Babies want it.  Babies need it.  You can hear it when they cry.  You can see it, when they cuddle up to an adult.



            Toddlers and preschoolers too.

            You can hear it when they cry.

            You can see it, when they hide behind an adult.

            They want the adult to protect them.

            A favorite toy, a favorite blanket.

            is there for warmth and love.



            Children love dolls.  They do.

            All children need to be told that it is ok

            to play with dolls.  Even boys.

            They do.

   Children show love to dolls, or other stuffed animals.  

            They do.



            They get experience in loving.  They do.

            Loving and being loved.

            Loving and being loved.



Elementary schoolers need love as well.  They do not with stuffed animals.  Why?  They believe it is babyish.  That is what all of their friends say.  Is it?  No.  Everybody does things their own way.  Everybody gets love their own way.  There are healthy ways to get love.  There are unhealthy ways to get love.  Stuffed animals are healthy.  They are better than unhealthy ways.



Maybe dolls or action figures.  They play with dolls and action figures.  Girls take care of dolls.  Boys need to be encouraged to as well, if they want to.

Boys play with action figures, they take care of them.  

It is in their play.  They always have to win.  They always have to be ok.  They always have to stay alive.  Girls should be encouraged to play with action figures as well, if they want to.



                     Teenagers.

      Teenagers need love as well.  The teenage live is hard.

      I know.  I was there.  I walked through it.  

      I survived it.  I survived that war.  

      That long, long, long, war.

      

                  Teenagers.

Teenagers need acceptance.  They need love.  They need to feel they are part of a group.  They need to feel that they are not alone.  They need to feel that they are not alone.

They do.

Some teenagers have sex.  Why?

a. They feel that is what the person they love wants.  They feel that if do not make love to their partner, their partner will not love.  They want to show their partner that they love them.  They hope their partner will see it.  They want to see that their partner loves them as well.

b. They hope they will get pregnant.  They do.  They believe they will have something to love.  A small person to love and care for.  A living doll.  A person who needs them, a person who wants them.  Many have not had that before.



                     Adults

Adults need a partner.  Adults need a companion.  Adults need somebody to share their life with.





We all want love.  We all need love.  Love makes you happy.  It makes you smile.  It does not matter if the partner is a boy or a girl.  Boys can love boys.  Girls can love boys.  The gender of the other person is not important.  The gender of the other person is not important.  What is important?  We all need love.  We all want love.  We all want to be happy.  That is important.

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